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17 November 2016, 10:52
If you've had a bad day...
Try as you might to feel okay, there are those times when you'd rather crawl into a hole and forget about the world. Of course sadness is a part of normal life, but that doesn't mean you can't kick your bad mood in the ass.
Honestly, candles are so lit (pun intended). Aside from being kind of awesome, a study in Japan suggests that lemon scented candles can have an "anti stress" effect. Aside from that, aromatherapy is widely practiced all over the world and it's a cheap way to instantly lift your mood.
Write. Write something. Write anything. Write a tweet; write a play; write some fanfic; write a freaking text. Journaling and writing for anti anxiety and stress purposes is widely recommended by mental health experts. But what should you write to immediately pick yourself up? Try a list of things you're thankful for. The part of the brain that processes "gratitude" can help to trigger the release of dopamine (the happy chemical)into your brain.
I write the best when I'm sad. I love my deep inner thoughts so much more when something is upsetting me— Sabrina H (@Brinakristine) September 14, 2016
Okay this one is a bit obvious but, seriously. When is the last time you did your favourite thing? What even is your favourite thing? If you're feeling down, then sod it. Call in sick to work or school and just do your favourite thing. Is it painting? Stay home and paint. Is it playing music? Do that. The idea that you have to subject yourself to stuff that makes you unhappy is a myth. Remember that.
Nothing feels quite as powerful as using your voice to help other people. One way to send your bad mood packing is by getting involved in a social cause that you feel passionate about. #iwill is a social initiative designed to inspire and empower communities across the UK. It aims to break down barriers for youth social action and give everyone, especially teens, the power to improve the lives of people living in communities just like theirs. Get in touch with #iwill and lift your mood by helping others.
My future husband gone always know when I'm mad or sad cause I be cleaning & cooking my ass off as a stress reliever lol— Lia (@Taino_Thalia) September 4, 2016
Why is cooking a mood booster? A couple of reasons. It's a mind focusing task with a rewarding outcome. Similar to tidying up, you feel better after you've cooked something for yourself because you've distracted your brain, focused it on something else, and can now enjoy the result of your labor. Cook a freaking grilled cheese sandwich and tell me it won't make you feel better.
This one isn't sustainable but I'm sure everyone knows the feeling of being super sad and just seeing something and saying to yourself, "sod it. I deserve this."
i'm gonna treat myself to a niceass shower instead of sittin around and being sad. gotta treat myself when i'm by myself— Jessica (@CometsCrash) September 1, 2016
I treat myself with nice food when i'm sad, to cheer up. And I feel like I deserve nice food when I achieve something. Priddy much always— Who's that girl (@locohotcocco) February 25, 2016
when I'm sad I treat myself to junk food and the powerpuff girls pic.twitter.com/QRHlUHHgl6— em + ziall (@anselftzarry) August 6, 2015
when i'm sad & try to hide it by saying 'i'm fine' i want someone to look me in the eyes and say 'ur not fine, here is 3 million in cash'— owen (@yepokhi) September 15, 2016
If you're feeling sad then here's what you should do: Throw a camera, notebook, and headphones into your backpack. Slip on some walking shoes and catch a bus into the center of the city where you live. And then explore. Explore, clear your mind, problem solve. Just see something you've never seen before.
You may feel down because you're carrying around a lot of frustration, anxiety, and worry. There is no requirement for you to constantly feel alone and isolated. Talk to someone. Tell them why you're upset. Ask for advice. I promise as soon as you do this you will feel so much better.